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Maybe You're Feeling...
Disconnected. Alone. Misunderstood.
Your partner and you have the same fight over and over again and you are both exhausted from it.
The lack of connection with your partner leaves you feeling alone and like you are the “bad guy.”
It’s almost like you are on opposite teams and stuck in a cycle and can’t get out of it.
You want to restore emotional safety but nothing seems to work.
You may have had thoughts like…
“What happened to us? We used to be on the same team and now I feel like we are enemies.”
“I am so alone in this marriage.”
“Is it always going to be this way?.”
“I can no longer count on you.”
“Are we going to make it? Will our relationship end?”
Your marriage is in real trouble and nothing you do seems to work.
" You’re so emotionally exhausted and worried that this is all there is and you want so much more in your relationship. "
You want to feel close again and know that you are in this thing together but nothing has seemed to work. You keep getting stuck in the same arguments and keep feeling misunderstood.
If you could reconnect with your partner and feel like you are on the same team again things would feel differently.
You would be able to count on one another again and enjoy life together. You can trust that when disagreements happen (and they will!) you know how to get back on track.
You can get out of this cycle and feel close to your person again.
Working with a couples therapist who understands processes and patterns can help you get to true, lasting change.
Why Do We Get Stuck?
Couples can get stuck in negative interaction patterns and seemingly every fight ends the same way. Both partners can feel misunderstood, unimportant, and alone. Each of you desperately wants to be seen in the ways you are trying and do not want to be the “bad guy.”
But when you try to communicate this it only leads to another disconnect with your person. You just feel stuck and exhausted.
Over time this pattern gets reinforced and you each try to defend or explain when things start to get off track.
You are aware of the slightest shift in your partner’s tone of voice or facial expressions and these cues can set off the alarm bells of ‘Here we go again.’
We Are Here to Help
Couples therapy helps you understand your pattern of disconnect and the underlying unmet needs you both have. We work together to create a new cycle leading to resolution and emotional safety in your relationship.
When you feel close and connected you are able to relax and enjoy being together again. You can trust that even when life pulls you apart you know how to reconnect.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) gives us a roadmap for true repair and lasting change.
Now that you can recognize the stuck patterns and get back on track you are able to resolve and move on.
You can have connecting and meaningful moments and not feel alone in your relationship.
You have the tools to reconnect and resolve and spend your time living life together creating new memories.
It’s Time for Change
If you are ready for change and want to restore connection in your relationship then we are ready to help you.
Taking the first step and reaching out takes courage and is the start of your journey to healing.
We are looking forward to helping you create closeness and connection in your relationship.
If you’re ready to help heal your relationship, then we’re here to help.
Reach out below for a free 15 minute consultation
Welcome to Resolve Counseling Group!
We know how challenging this time can be. This is your person and you are both hurting.
Starting therapy shows how strong and courageous you are to lean into the hard conversations and how much you want to have your relationship work. We are trained to help you navigate this process and get to the heart of the issues in your relationship.
And it can be the best step in healing with your partner.
At Resolve Counseling we will guide you through this process from beginning to end and help you create the relationship that works for you.
Reach out today to get started on the journey to healing and connection.